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Why I Love Volunteering at Romance Writing Cons

Moonday Mania

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There is nothing like going to a convention for something you love to do. If you write romance, RWA Nationals is the place to be in July. (Although, maybe not San Antonio in July. Whew, was it hot!) Famous romance writers from all over were there. If you are a fan girl and collapse at the sight of your authors, you would be rubbernecking all day and into the night.

Luckily, I was too busy to catch many of the biggies, but I did see a few. And I got to network with a few too. Nice!

san antonio riverwalk at night

San Antonio Riverwalk at night. Photo courtesy of ML Guida

How did I make that happen? Well, like most good things, it was an accident. Okay, it was the result of planning to do something else and it was an unexpected side benefit. You see, I volunteer at RWA and this year I did two different activities, both of which turned out to be terrific networking opps where I met amazing authors and book business people, as well as terrific volunteers and other RWA members.

The first event was the PRO Retreat. Now, if you are not an RWA member you may not know that our organization is divided into PAN (Published Author Network), PRO (Getting there, maybe published but haven’t hit the threshold for PAN yet), and everyone else (haven’t finished a manuscript, or been brave enough to submit it to a publisher or publish it yourself). I’m in PRO and I may be there for a very long time, due to the way PAN membership is tiered. And that’s fine with me. The PROs are a cool group of motivated people. We include many indie-published and small press published authors as well as those who aren’t published yet, but are serious about getting there. PRO’s rock!

This was the first year we had a round-table event and since I’m on the PRO Steering Committee, I got to help out! That meant I got to contact romance authors, romance cover artists, and romance marketing people and invite them to come to our event. It also meant I got to talk to almost all of our speakers, at least once. How cool is that?

The other volunteering position I did was at the front desk. Basically, anyone with a question or a problem showed up at the desk. Lots of authors with lost items, people confused about which building the pitch appointments were in, and just general questions. I not only got to meet all those authors and RWA members, but I also got to hang out with some cool volunteers and meet some of our dedicated office staff. We never get to talk to the behind the scenes people, so it was very interesting to meet the women who put on this event year after year and keep RWA moving forward.

If you have something that you do that you love, find a convention and go enjoy yourself. But when you do, consider the benefits of helping out at the convention. Yes, it takes time away from all the amazing workshops. Yes, I missed a few things that I would have loved to go to. But it’s more likely that I would have found myself burnt out from sitting and learning and spent Friday afternoon in the bar!

In case you missed it, my new venture into modern Gothic romance is out! 

Contemporary Love Stories with a Gothic twist.

ghosts of christmas past by jessica aspenLook for Ghosts of Christmas Past on sale for 99 cents! August 2014


Ghosts of Christmas Past

A Haunted Holidays Novel

Jen MacNamara flees the Christmas wedding of her best friend and cheating fiancé and runs to the country to spend the holiday alone. It’s the perfect plan, until her unexpectedly sexy neighbor and landlord, Nate Pierce, insists on bringing the holiday to her—complete with a Christmas tree, hot chocolate, and an unexpected kiss. 

And that’s not Jen’s only problem.

 The cozy country farmhouse is already occupied by something evil. Now Jen’s nights are spent wrapped in sensual dreams of a past life, and her days growing closer to Nate as they solve the mystery of the malevolent ghost that haunts not only the house, but also wants Jen dead.

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Three Reasons Why I Love Monday

Moonday Mania

a blog about monday


I think we’re seeing in working mothers a change from “Thank God it’s Friday” to “Thank God it’s Monday.” If any working mother has not experienced that feeling, her children are not adolescent.” Ann Diel

greenwoman on jessica aspen writesI love Mondays. Why? Because everyone leaves the house and I get to work writing my paranormal romances! Or edit my fantasy romances. Or work on the multitude of other tasks that go along with being a writer.

I’m very lucky because I get to work my day job part time, and that means the rest of the time I get to write romance, but that also means that I’m squeezing my writing into the small hours between the job and when everyone else gets home. That means I need to be efficient. Here are my working day rules and the reasons why I love Mondays.

1. Have a schedule and stay on it

If I don’t have a rigid schedule for what I’m doing then other things eat up my writing time. I can fix dinner, mop the floor, or run errands when the kids are home from school. Or I can do that stuff on the weekends. But I’ve found that writing is best done when I’m by myself with no one else around. Do I write when the kids are home on spring break, or sick? Sure. But I get much less done on those days. And I have to say, when writing a sexy love scene, those kids should not be home! So on the days when I’m by myself, writing is king.

2. Take breaks

I set my timer for forty-five minutes and write. No stopping. Then I set my timer for fifteen minutes and take a break. I get up from the computer and move. Sometimes I do some exercises, most of the time I get housecleaning done. This means that I am not sitting for too much at a stretch and it means that those forty-five minutes are very productive. Plus, if there is something that is not romance oriented that I really find is nagging at me and distracting me from said hot, love scene, say…cleaning the bathroom, I can get that done in my fifteen minute break and it’s off my list. Then I’m back to focusing on my sizzling romance.

3. Keep the writing days sacred

This is something I’ve struggled with. I now have one day a week (currently it’s Thursdays) where I don’t write and I don’t have kids or a husband at home. That’s the day I go for coffee with friends, run errands, make phone calls, go to the grocery. You name it, if it has to be done during the week it’s on Thursday. Making that simple change has upped my productivity by an amazing amount. No longer are my writing days broken up by appointments or driving somewhere. They are all for writing. And this way I have taken care of my guilt. The guilt of not writing. The guilt of not seeing my friends. The guilt of there being no food in the house. All because of Thursdays!

Do you love Mondays? Why or why not? What do you do that helps you with your writing time, or whatever it is that you do that isn’t about taking care of the house or family or pets? Do you make time for your pleasures?

I had such a tough time picking a quote for today, and there were so many good ones. Check out http://www.pinterest.com/explore/funny-monday-quotes/ and find some great pins about Mondays!


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